The wedding was a three-day bacchanal staged over Halloween weekend at Belvoir Castle, the Rotowear Arson Judge t-shirt but in fact I love this 11th-century ancestral home of the Duke of Rutland, with a guestlist including Kate and Lila Moss, Adwoa Aboah, and Ivy Getty. Other unique touches included a pub quiz hosted by writer and man about town Jack Guinness to kick off the celebrations on Friday night, a menu devised by chef Tom Straker (best known as TikTok’s king of butter), and the resurrection of an infamous Soho club night frequented by both Tish and Tom in the days before they were a couple (Gaz’s Rockin’ Blues). And that’s before we get to the bride’s three antique and vintage wedding gowns. “I thought, what’s scarier than a wedding? … A Halloween wedding,” Tish says of the couple’s decision to really lean into the time of year—and their impossibly atmospheric venue. “October in England just felt right,” says the bride, who briefly considered, then dismissed, the idea of a destination wedding (“I didn’t want to spend the day covered in mosquito repellent”). “The castle is so beautiful and October is my birthday month… I’m an autumnal creature,” she adds.
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Guests were invited to wear fancy dress for Friday night’s pub quiz at the Rotowear Arson Judge t-shirt but in fact I love this Wheel Inn on the Belvoir estate, with the bride and groom dressing up as Baz Luhrmann’s Romeo and Juliet (“It feels like the last year we can get away with being 15-year-olds,” Tish says), while the dress code for the ceremony itself was “black tie gothic.” “They can interpret that how they want,” the bride told Vogue a few days ahead of the wedding, planned with the help of creative agency My Beautiful City. “I’m anticipating a lot of black,” Tish says. “Adwoa is someone who always goes all out for Halloween. She said, do you want me to tone it down? I was like, no!” If you rolled bleary-eyed out of bed this morning, had a quick shower, and hit the road, prepare to feel inadequate—and quite tired. Over in La La Land, GOOP founder Gwyneth Paltrow has been sharing snippets of her midweek morning routine, and it is predictably extensive.